Relationship Toolbox
What is Marriage Counseling? And Does it Work?
What Is Marriage Counseling: A Guide to Long-lasting Happiness in Your Relationships When you're considering marriage counseling, it's essential to define what you want to achieve. You might feel overwhelmed by unresolved issues like communication breakdowns or...
A Surprising Reason for Conflict in Relationships
I bet you haven’t even thought about this reason for relationship conflict! I remember learning this theory 25 years ago, and it’s still not really “out there” in the mainstream. So many of us have stuff we haven’t worked through or resolved. As a result, we may feel...
Signs a Man Is Hurt Emotionally and What to Do About It
Today’s blog is about pain and the prescription for it, all rolled into one! First, let’s talk about the pain. I hear all kinds of complaints about men from women. I hear frustration, genuine concern, and fears that mostly center around the fact that they don’t feel...
The 1 Relationship Question That Changes Everything in an Argument
It’s time to share a relationship question you need to ask when something has gone south with your partner, in order to start healing and righting the ship. Before I share that question with you, I’m going to share a similar one I heard at an event recently. Jack...
A Smart AND Useless Question to Ask for a Healthy Relationship
In my work as a Relationship Architect, I hear so many questions come up – and some more than others. One of the most common questions I get from couples in short-term and long-term partnerships is around relationship expectations. What do you expect of me? What do...
