Published Books
BUILT TO LAST
Get practical tools and expert insights to help you design, nurture, and sustain a thriving, passionate relationship.
Conflict Proof
Navigate conflict with confidence, transforming challenges into deeper intimacy and lasting connection.
Ready – Set – Date
How to create your online profile, how to be the chooser in your dating, know what you want and how to get it, and much more.
Love Revolution
This book provides tools to help you shift from one space in life into another while healing yourself on the journey.
Break Down to Wake Up
16 authors from around the globe, share their personal journeys of the depths of personal pain, addiction, loneliness, loss, and confusion.
Book Reviews
Amazing and a must have/read for anyone, male or female, who is committed to creating and having full and lasting relationships!
Geoff Laughton’s book, Built To Last, is amazing and a must have/read for anyone, male or female, who is committed to creating and having full and lasting relationships. Most people get into relationships assuming that if “it is meant to be”, or if the two people are “compatible”, then the relationship will make it through life’s ups and downs. Geoff beautifully and compassionately illustrates why a relationship left to chance either won’t last, or won’t be fulfilling, and guides the reader through the important and crucial steps to building a relationship that not only endures life’s challenges, but fully thrives. His voice is refreshing! He is very real and vulnerable, sharing his own experiences and lessons as well as other real-life examples and lessons from his years of life and relationship coaching. This book is different from any relationship book I have read. It is an honest and deep evaluation (mental, emotional and spiritual) of what really affects our relationships with others and our relationship with ourself (which is essential!). I know that using it as a tool in my own relationships is the key to having the great connections I desire and deserve. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and being willing to be vulnerable to help others find their version of “happiness”.
Michelle L. Roben
Geoff’s Stellar Expertise Guides with Clarity and Power!
Can’t we ALL use a little relationship advice?!!! As a Coach, I know the best way to move forward fast – is to HAVE a great mentor for those challenges we all might want to avoid. If you want a better relationship – then DEFINITELY buy this book! Geoff’s longstanding success in his own relationship is a testament to he talks what he walks. With his over 20 years in coaching couples, and individuals to better relationships – his level of expertise is stellar. I have worked with Geoff personally on my own challenges and he has always turned on the light for some facet of the issue I didn’t see before – that helped shift the whole problem immensely!
The only problem? There just aren’t enough books (yet 😉 written by Geoff! What would you like to see him write about now?
Jem
Inspiring – Realistic – Humorous – And Yet So Practical!
If you are ready for a real adult relationship instead of the fairytale, this is the book for you. Geoff Laughton doesn’t pull any punches about what being in a relationship is really like. He makes so many insightful points throughout. For example, being focused on how your partner needs to change is a recipe for relationship failure, while focusing on your own growth and happiness while supporting your partner in theirs is a cornerstone of fulfilling relationships. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. There’s so much here that I’m finding helpful. The straightforward, humorous, yet conversational style is reassuring and treats it’s readers with respect and empathy. Not only I have personally been significantly helped by Geoff with work and personal relationships, his work with the couples I know personally has impressed me. In every case I’ve seen a greater connection, understanding and contentment. Right now I’m using his book to help me think through what I want and how to prepare for my next significant relationship. I’m excited and reassured that I too will be able to co-create a truly growth-full, conscious, and mutually supportive relationship by following Geoff’s guidelines and shifting my perspective.
Timeless Dancer
This book will shift your perspective.
Built To Last is a book that is written from the heart of a man who cares deeply about making a difference in all who reads his book. You won’t find any theoretical, professorial or psychology BS on the treaty of human relationships here. That’s the good news. Instead, Geoff Laughton lays out, in the most readable and enjoyable way possible, the critical elements of designing, building and maintaining the type of relationship you want most in your life.
We all want a relationship with our partner that has passion, honesty, compassion and companionship. For that, you have two choices. You can wish and wait for a dream to come true. Or you can read this book and learn how to create that strong, intimate and mutually desired connection with your spouse that you’ve always wanted.
From a lifetime of working in the trenches and hearing all the stories/excuses told out loud to a therapist, Laughton delivers the best of insights in how to look at your relationship in a whole new light, and the practical steps to get you to the place in your heart and your life where you truly want to be. This book will shift your perspective, help you overcome the negative biases that you have about what is not possible and leads you to a new belief of what could be possible and real and joyous between you and that other very special person in your life.
Madcat71
Most of us fear conflict and will go to great lengths to avoid it
Geoff’s book helps us to remove the negative connotations around conflict within relationship and allows us to get in touch with its potential for bringing couples closer together. Most of us fear conflict and will go to great lengths to avoid it– both at home and the workplace. This book provides us with some tangible guidelines for navigating conflict with trust and vulnerability. It will help you and your partner get in touch with the “heart” of an issue and move you towards greater love and connection. A must-read for all couples!
Steven Artisan
A “must read” for mature intimacy!
Geoff Laughton has the remarkable ability to be ruthlessly honest and deeply optimistic at the same time, allowing you to see the truth of your relationship issues without falling into a “How will I ever fix this?” despair. He moves past the superficial “attract your soulmate” hype and addresses the nuts and bolts of healthy relationship, drawing on everything from attachment theory to spiritual inspiration in his quest to lay out the blueprint of a healthy relationship. Having worked with Geoff personally, and having read the “sneak preview” of this book, I can say without qualifications that if you’re looking for a mature, vibrant and deep level of intimacy in your life, first with yourself and then with a beloved, this is your book.
Carol Briskin
Begin Choreographing the Beautiful Dance Toward a Loving Relationships
Geoff Laughton is a compassionate soul who deeply cares about people. Within the pages of this book he shares his experience from a heart-centered place. Whether you’re seeking a new relationship or wanting to nurture your existing one, Geoff helps you focus on not only the partnership, but who you want to be & how you want to show up so that you put your best foot forward.
Since I love to dance, I love the analogy about “choreographing the dance of emotional and physical intimacy.”
Grab your copy of “Built to Last” today and start your journey down the path to creating a loving, passionate and lasting relationship.
Debra Jason