Relationship Toolbox
A Surprising Reason for Conflict in Relationships
I bet you haven’t even thought about this reason for relationship conflict! I remember learning this theory 25 years ago, and it’s still not really “out there” in the mainstream. So many of us have stuff we haven’t worked through or resolved. As a result, we may feel...
Signs a Man Is Hurt Emotionally and What to Do About It
Today’s blog is about pain and the prescription for it, all rolled into one! First, let’s talk about the pain. I hear all kinds of complaints about men from women. I hear frustration, genuine concern, and fears that mostly center around the fact that they don’t feel...
The 1 Relationship Question That Changes Everything in an Argument
It’s time to share a relationship question you need to ask when something has gone south with your partner, in order to start healing and righting the ship. Before I share that question with you, I’m going to share a similar one I heard at an event recently. Jack...
A Smart AND Useless Question to Ask for a Healthy Relationship
In my work as a Relationship Architect, I hear so many questions come up – and some more than others. One of the most common questions I get from couples in short-term and long-term partnerships is around relationship expectations. What do you expect of me? What do...
Understanding Men & Women: Reinventing How We Can BE with Each Other
Sadly, along all the political back and forth that is polarizing men and women and in many of the relationships I see, I fear humanity is getting thrown in the rubbish. Relationships haven’t been about connecting and community. It’s been about men vs. women. It’s been...
How To Make Your Relationship Stronger
Today I’m Asking You: What Do We Do? Rather than giving you my relationship advice like I do in most of my blogs, I’m going to do something a little differently today! Rather than “teach” anything, I am simply sharing some questions around how men and women relate to...
How to Make a Relationship Work When You’re Afraid
Relationship Tips from Geoff Laughton, Your Relationship Architect Ah, love. Whether you’re in the infatuation stage, a newlywed, or having some troubled times in your marriage, it’s normal to ask, “How long is my relationship going to last?” I’ve had several couples...
Spiritual v Ego Relationship Talk 2015
Here's a 12-minute interview that I did with Jennifer Urezzio on Soul on the Run Radio Show. We talk about: The difference between spirit-led v ego-led relationships How can someone who may feel that they are "not enough" in a relationship, view themselves in a...
Not Any Farther Than I Can Throw You!
Do you have trust issues with your partner (and/or someone you're not romantically involved with)? If you don't, you're a rarity. With so many couples I work with, it looks like communication's a major issue (which it is), but more often than not, the more fundamental...
Gettin’ Nekkid
These are the last words you'll ever read from me. Are they really? I hope not. However, that's one of the fears that came into my mind when my heart told me I needed to write this particular article today. In the past, that fear would have been enough to stop me...
Geoff Laughton is Your Relationship Architect
He is a coach, speaker, facilitator, and two-time international bestselling author. Over the past 26 years, his unique approach has worked wonders with hundreds of private clients and couples from all walks of life and in a wide array of relationships.