I’m dedicated to helping you build YOUR best possible relationship, rather than settling for less than you desire… or deserve.
Perhaps You Can Relate
Amidst a 16-year seemingly successful corporate career, I will never forget how it felt to be walking around as a card-carrying member of the walking dead.
The one thing I had going for me was my family. Yet, I was such a workaholic that my wife and kids rarely saw me and when they did, it was typically the flat, “dead” version of me.
I was lucky.
At the age of 35, I experienced a full physical and emotional breakdown that led me to see that I had NO real relationship with myself… particularly with my most authentic Self. My marriage was good, but it was lacking a crucial element – my full, opened heart. Without that, a relationship is the equivalent of a house with great curb appeal, but completely empty on the inside. To be honest, at that point in my life I didn’t even have good curb appeal… I was constantly exhausted and weighed 285 pounds!
Over the last 30 years, I’ve been on a journey… facilitated by transformational workshops, retreats, and intensives, and mentoring from phenomenal spiritual masters and the best-of-the-best change agents and coaches. Through these many experiences, I have reconnected to a profoundly deep, abiding love for my Self.
My non-negotiable commitment has become to LIVE LIFE FULLY, and to do what I can to help others do the same. My life purpose is to empower love, in action, which I am beyond fortunate to get to do for my livelihood too. With the continued blessing of my wife and my now-grown son, I remain devoted to coaching individuals and couples in designing and building a relationship with Self AND each other – a relationship that expands connection and healing and creates harmony with your dreams that have been neglected or forgotten.
“…I’m now living in a new place, with a new job, and in a new relationship. I believe that these are all a result of my work with Geoff. To say I’m grateful – and that I endorse him as a coach – is an understatement!”
E.P.
Portland, OR
“…The shift that occurred in my energy after working with Geoff gave my Spirit and body such a sense of feeling renewed, re-generated, and re-charged! I recommend Geoff to anyone who wants to maintain a loving, passionate heart.”
Preston Pearson
New York, NY
“…I am trusting myself more, continuing to speak up for what I believe and need, and allowing my life to unfold in whole new ways. I am forever grateful for the experience and all it has brought me.”
Sue Farwell
Longmont, CO
DESIGN AND BUILD YOUR IDEAL RELATIONSHIP
Let’s get real about your relationship and take a deep dive into your frustrations, pains, fears… as well as your hopes and dreams. From there, we can build a strong foundation and a truly connected and beautiful relationship.
Why Work with Geoff?
Geoff Laughton is a relationship coach, speaker, facilitator, and two-time international bestselling author. Over the past 30 years, his unique approach has worked wonders with hundreds of private clients and couples from all walks of life and in a wide array of relationships.
Geoff is also certified in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). He has led more than 300 workshops; has facilitated numerous life-changing retreats for men, women and couples; and has spoken at numerous live and online events.
Having been partnered with his beloved Sarah for 43 years, Geoff is intimately familiar with the ups and downs of a long-term relationship, and there are very few things that he can’t help you navigate and shift.
Why Relationship Coaching?
Choosing the right kind of support can mean the difference between survival and transformation. Here's why coaching with Your Relationship Architect is different:
- Dedicated 1-on-1 Attention: Each session is personal and focused. No groups, no distractions, no generic advice.
- Depth and Experience: I bring lived experience, not just theory, grounded in decades of personal and professional practice.
- Real-World Tools: You’ll leave sessions with tools you can actually use. Conversations are grounded in reality, not just ideals.
- Long-Term Results: I don’t do surface work. I address the foundation so your results last, long after coaching ends.
- No Judgment: This is a safe place to tell the truth, speak the hard things, and move forward, no matter where you’re starting.
