Design and Build Your Dream Relationship
Welcome to the home of Your Relationship Architect!
As you just saw, to have your Dream Relationship, it helps to look at it like you would a Dream Home. You have to start with designing what you want. Once you have the design and plans done, you have to actually build it, which always has unanticipated surprises – both pleasant and unpleasant – as part of the process. To have it done right, you have experts doing that with, and for, you. Once it’s built, it’s great. You have a beautiful home, you’ve got a new big screen TV, you’re having sex multiple times a week…it’s all wonderful! Then…time, children, and career concerns come along, and everything changes.
Every house needs refreshing, re-decorating, and renovating after a certain period of time…relationships and marriages are no different. You can daydream or fantasize about a better, more thrilling relationship with a new person, but if you’ve got a strong house of relationship overall, you can figure out the kind of different – and improved – design you want with your current partner. You co-create the vision for the kind of home you want to (re)build next with each other, and start figuring out how best to design and build that next stage or phase.
However, like most people, you probably don’t really know how, and the models you grew up with of how to be in an outrageously fulfilling relationship aren’t likely cutting the mustard.
That’s where Your Relationship Architect can really come in handy…to help you re-design what you want (and/or, if you’re in the early stages of a new relationship, look at what kind of relationship you’re really wanting to build), help you figure out the best plan to get there; determine what any existing and potential obstacles to getting there are; clear them out of the way (and how to prevent them); and – once the new/re-modeled house is built – teach you the best ways to maintain things in a way that will keep the house/relationship a dynamic, delicious, and beautiful place to live in together.
On this Site, you can learn how some of that happens (or doesn’t), get useful tips for keeping your relationship house in order, learn how to avoid some mistakes early on, and discover ways you can rejuvenate/refresh things if you and your partner are both clear that you’ve got a good thing, but want it to shift into greatness.
Thank you for coming to visit, and here’s to you having the best Relationship you can dream of,