Getting More Bang For Your Bang

Ok, first of all, get your mind out of the gutter, now. The title of this piece is not what you think (though it’s not a bad objective in the realms of intimacy).  This is not going to be about how to improve your sex life, though if you pay attention to...

It’s More Than A River In Egypt

“Denial – a defense mechanism in which a person is faced with a fact that is too painful to accept and rejects it instead, insisting that it is not true despite what may be overwhelming evidence. The subject may deny the reality of the unpleasant fact...

Are You On the Receiving End?

One of the biggest issues that shows up in the couples and individuals I work with, particularly in regards to their relationships, is where they are so challenged to comprehend what it means to receive. When you dig down even further with the issue, it becomes clear...

Geoff Laughton Interviewed By Abbey St John

Radio Free Spirit Show – April 27th show: Today is the last ever Radio Free Spirit Show. I made a commitment to the show for a year, and that time is up. I have so loved doing the show, and getting to interview so many thought leaders and inspiring people, but...

What Are You Waiting For?

One of the most common things I hear from clients is along the lines of “When I [fill in the blank], I’ll be able to/will do [fill in the blank].” That may be talking to their spouse/partner about something that has been bothering them for years, and...

What’s Your Dream Relationship?

To me, one of the greatest goals I hear people talk about — from their teenage years onward — is finding their “dream relationship” or “dream partner.” It’s an idea that feels deeply personal yet universal — something so many of us long for in one way or another.  But...